Two months
ago, I finished my temporary mission at Reservoir Dogs Day care. I had good
hopes it’d be slightly longer than it actually was so I didn’t really planned the
rest ahead. Since then, I have been sending CVs and applications like crazy and
I landed a 10-days job at Ogilvy & Mather. I have had 12 interviews in the
last four weeks.
What have I
learned so far?
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Getting
a good/decent job is hard.
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Every
interview is different and, no matter how well prepared you are, the
interviewer will always find a way to make you lose balance. The trick is to
turn negative into positive.
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It is
very rare to receive feedback. You will usually be told that there was a
candidate that was slightly more experienced than you. And curse him/her for stealing the job!
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You
will get calls from scam companies, even when you stick to big websites like
Reed or Monster. I have found this very accurate testimony and can only advise
you to follow this Facebook group to prevent any loss of time, energy and
money.
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Being
rejected is hard. You put a lot of effort, sweat and hopes in every application
and in every interview. It is ok; the right job will come along eventually. Allow yourself a bit of mourning then, dust yourself up and get back in the saddle!
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Being
rejected by your dream company; twice in the space of ten months is insanely
hard. It is a pill I still find difficult to swallow.
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Recruiters
can be like fairy godmothers…or like Maleficent. Do not take it personally.
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You
cannot give up! Ever! Because you could be so very close to getting a great
job. And because, as long as there is hope, there is a chance that things might
turn around.
Job-hunting
is like a job in itself. And it is a hell of a tough one!
It will
make you feel down, useless and worthless. But, as I said just a few lines ago,
you cannot give up on your dreams, on yourself.
My advices
are:
- Make a CV
that you like and aimed at the career you want. Use Google to find examples and
create your own design (I worked on mine for a whole week but I have the
satisfaction of being a proud mum! No pre-made templates, it is all mine!).
- Get in
touch with an advisor from the National Careers Service: it is free and they
will give you great tips on how to create your CV, how to word your
professional experience and how to behave in an interview.
- Find
support from your friends or family. Even better: if you have a friend who is
looking for a job, get together in a nice café and work as a team. It will keep
you energised and motivated.
- When you
feel you’ve written a great cover letter, save it and use it as a template. You
can alter it from application to application and it will save you time.
- Do send
some spontaneous applications. Do not make it a priority but do it, especially
if you are aiming at a certain type of company.
- Allow
yourself some time off. Sending applications is daunting: it can take time
(damn online forms), it can be boring or you can feel you don’t find any new
job ads to apply to. One of the perks of being unemployed is that you can do
things when everyone else is at work. So, go visit that museum, go to the
cinema, go to that pub, go for a walk…
- Do not
lose hope! I am often close to a breaking point where I feel like I am never
going to get back to work, that I should go home to my parents and wait for
death in my bed. But, I refuse to give up on me and on my dreams. I’ve wanted
to make a life in London since I was 18 and, even if I have to force myself
down on you, you will have to deal with me, United Kingdom!
Let’s keep our fingers
crossed, our chins high and our hopes high in the
sky! We
will make it!
Thanks for the entertaining and insightful post. It is amazing how difficult getting a proper job can be. I have a young one just getting out into the "real world" and think she will be surprised when it comes to what everything entails and all the hoops you have to jump through.
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